5 November 2025
Let’s be real—juggling work travel and family time sometimes feels like trying to ride two bikes at once. You’re in hotel rooms in different time zones while your kiddos are back home growing up faster than your frequent flyer miles. But here’s the good news: with a little creativity (and some Wi-Fi), you don’t have to miss out on those precious family moments. In fact, work trips can actually be a secret weapon in strengthening family bonds... if you play your cards right.
Let’s unpack some fun, light-hearted, and totally doable ways to stay connected with your crew at home, even when you’re miles away in a hotel lobby waiting for your Uber.
Sure, it's tough missing bedtime tales, Saturday pancakes, and spontaneous living room dance-offs. But with technology and a sprinkle of creativity, you can turn those lonely hotel evenings into quality family time that’s actually fun!
Try these ideas:
- Storytime Across the Miles: Pick a chapter book and read a bit every night. Your kids will look forward to your voice, and it becomes your special routine.
- Virtual Dinner Dates: Eat together over video. Prop your phone up during dinner so it feels like you're at the table.
- Emoji Challenges: Have emoji storytelling contests via text. Who can send the funniest emoji sentence?
It’s all about staying connected, and adding a sprinkle of fun keeps the vibe light, not forced.
Here’s how you can do it:
- Sticker Map Adventures: Get a big map at home. Every time you travel somewhere new, the kids mark it with a fun sticker. Bonus points if they draw something about what you’re doing there.
- Souvenir Scavenger Hunt: Give your kids a themed task before your trip, like “Find something tiny and shiny,” and they have to guess what souvenir you’ll bring back that fits the clue.
- Postcard Palooza: Old-fashioned but golden. Send a postcard from every city. Kids love snail mail, and having a little collection is pretty cool.
This stuff turns your absence into something exciting for the whole family.
- One-on-One Chats: Pocket 5-10 minutes for each kid, especially if you have multiples. Use that time just for them—no multitasking.
- Mini Interviews: Ask wild questions, like “If you ruled the world, what law would you make?” or “Would you rather fight one horse-sized duck or 100 duck-sized horses?”
- Daily Shout-Outs: Leave a silly voicemail pretending to be a superhero giving them a mission for the day. Get into character—it’ll be their favorite part of the day.
It’s not always about quantity—it’s about quality. Even five focused minutes can make your child feel like a rock star.
- Funny Elevator Selfies: No smiling allowed. Make it a game.
- Weird Food Chronicles: Snap pics of your room service or local eats and rate them on a “Yuck or Yum” scale.
- Local Landmarks or Street Art: Make it a “Where in the World is Mom/Dad?” mini geography lesson.
You don’t need to post everything on social media—just a couple of fun pics and quirky captions shared with the fam can become a memory-maker.
But this is also the perfect moment to reconnect intentionally.
- Homecoming Tradition: Make coming home A Thing. Maybe you stop and grab donuts together, or have a welcome-back fort party in the living room.
- Create a “Missed You” Basket: Fill it with silly goodies or little treats from your trip. You don’t need to spend big—think hotel soaps, airline snacks, or local trinkets.
- Family Debrief Session: Share stories from your trip and ask about their week. Show pictures, laugh about your airport adventures—it’s bonding gold.
Try:
- Packing Together: Let them choose a silly item you must bring. Maybe a toy dinosaur appears in your hotel pics each night?
- Trip Itinerary Drawing: They draw a comic strip of what they think you’ll be doing. (Meetings with robots? Coffee with aliens?)
- Goodbye Ritual: Create a special goodbye handshake, dance, or silly song.
This sets a positive tone and helps them process your travel in a playful, non-scary way.
Here’s how to soften the blow:
- Pre-recorded Pep Talks: Short videos saying, “Go get ‘em tiger!” or “I know you’ll do great on your test!” work wonders.
- Birthday or Special Day Videos: If you know you’ll be away, film a video ahead of time. Include inside jokes, goofy faces, and all the love.
- Bedtime Messages: Record a few “goodnight” clips. Kids can play them whenever they miss you.
It’s like time-travel hugs—and trust me, they matter more than you know.
- Collaborative Bucket List Doc: Use a shared Google Doc or app where the fam adds dream destinations, future adventures, or silly must-dos (like eating ice cream for breakfast).
- Plan a Family Staycation: While you're gone, let the kids plan a mini adventure for when you're back—like visiting a local museum or setting up a backyard campout.
- Create a “When I Get Back” Jar: Everyone adds one thing they'd like to do with you when you return. Pull one out for an epic welcome-home reunion.
Favorite apps to help?
- Marco Polo: Like video walkie-talkies. Great for asynchronous convos.
- Caribu: Interactive storytime and coloring app you can use live with younger kids.
- Google Family Chat or WhatsApp Groups: Keep it fun. Memes, quick check-ins, and shared photos go a long way.
Screen time isn’t evil when it brings people closer. Don’t be afraid to let tech work for you.
You're working to provide for your family. You’re trying your best. You can be a loving, present parent even when you're not physically there.
Some days you’ll knock it out of the park with creative, connection-filled moments. Others, you’ll just send a thumbs-up emoji and call it a win. That’s okay—we’re all human.
The key is showing up consistently, even in small ways. That effort, love, and silly dancing emoji you sent from Gate B17? Yeah, that sticks.
So next time you pack your carry-on and kiss your family goodbye, remember: distance might stretch miles, but love travels way farther.
Go ahead and get creative—because your family time deserves that magic spark, whether you’re home or 1,000 miles away.
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Category:
Working DadsAuthor:
Max Shaffer